‘Your shirt has really bold colors.” Does that sound like an insult in any way? How about this one: “That was a really bold choice.” Would you consider this criticism?
I hope not. I’d never wear something that would melt into the background of a beige room. I’d hate it if someone said, “You made a very safe, easy choice.”
Being bold means taking risks, not fearing failure or rejection and requires intentional thinking. When we live boldly for God, I believe we have empowerment and passion to make our boldness meaningful.
Settling for mediocrity in marriage, as parents, in careers, friendship, faith or service is not bold. God wants us to pursue everything we do with intensity and decisiveness. This means we are frequently checking the pulse of our pursuits and rapidly responding when we get a distress signal.
Is your marriage (especially in bed) ho-hum? Find some bold ways to rev it back up. Are your kids struggling? Don’t just shrug and follow the “traditional wisdom,” think creatively about taking brave actions no one else would to turn them around.
Do your prayers feel more like talking to the ceiling fan than conversations with a wise, cherished friend? Do something wild and new to transform your divine intimacy.
Don’t confuse boldness with arrogance or recklessness. When your bold actions are paired with love, respect and clarity the results will translate as conviction with complete humility.
Luke-warm, average and mediocre might feel safe, but they are stagnant. Bold (even if challenging and scary) is truly better.
• Ahwatukee Foothills resident Diane Markins can be reached at Diane@DianeMarkins.com. See more of her writing at www.DianeMarkins.com or connect on Facebook/WomeninHighDef.com. Her new radio show, “Bold Living with Diane Markins,” is on KPXQ 1360 AM every Saturday at 11:30 a.m.
